August, 2007

Parent Support Tip

Hello Parents!

I have enjoyed meeting with several of you as we have officially begun the monthly Parents Support Group which meets at the office in Coppell. For those that have not yet been able to make it, I encourage you to come and take part in the group. The goal of the group is to provide a time and place just for parents to come together, relax, listen and share, offer support, suggestions, ideas and/or gather information, support, ideas and strength from others in the group. We are in our infancy, and I am excited about the future of the group as it develops and grows according to the needs and wants of you, its members.

You are an amazing group of moms, dads and caretakers, and you are so vitally important to the little ones you love. Your job is not easy and may leave you feeling exhausted, frustrated and impatient by the end of the day (and maybe even early in the morning!). My suggestion to each of you is this: Plan and take time out of each day – even if it is just for 20 or 30 minutes – for yourself – so that you can be as good to yourself as you are to your child or children. Perhaps this means taking time out for some exercise – a simple walk around the block. Perhaps this means a hot bath with your favorite music playing or scented candles glowing. Perhaps this means reading a favorite book or making a recipe that YOU really enjoy. And, on a monthly basis, perhaps this means attending a support group (!!!) In any case, the very acts of choosing and performing, conscientiously, an action which you prefer, even for a brief amount of time, can leave you feeling empowered and rejuvenated. With this, you should have the extra boost of energy and motivation you need to better handle the demands of others around you. Your time and energy are precious and limited…choose how to use them wisely and don’t forget to include yourself in the equation!

Penny S. Apollaro, LCSW
Clinical Social Services Director
 

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