September, 2007

Speech & Language Tip of the Month

Teaching Your Child to Answer & Ask Questions

Answering and asking questions is a crucial element to mastering conversational skills.  Once your child is able to label objects and people, and put words together it is time to teach them how to answer and ask questions. 

First it is important to consider different types of questions and their hierarchy of difficulty.  Below is a list of some of the earliest learned question types from easiest to most difficult and simple ways to target them:

¨        “Yes/No” Questions   They can be answered with a gesture or one spoken word.

§      Answering:  (Example:  “Do you want milk?”)  A fun game to teach this concept is to hide objects and look for one in particular by asking “Is this the ball?”  “Yes!”  or “Is this the shoe?” “No!”

§      Asking:  (Example:  Can I have milk?)  When the situation arises, model the question form for your child, and then have them repeat it to you.  Example:  When your child wants milk try this:

·          Parent “Do you want milk?”

·          Child “yes”

·          Parent “OK, say can I have milk?”

·          Child “Can I have milk?

·          Parent “YES!!!  Great job!!”

¨        “What’s This” Questions  These questions can be answered by labeling objects. 

§      Answering:  To teach this, try to give your child a choice of answers.  Example:  “What is this?”  “A truck or ball?”

§      Asking:  Play a grab bag game of hiding objects with you asking the questions, then reverse rolls and have the child ask the “What’s this?” question.

¨        “Where” Questions  These questions are answered by pointing, searching and finding something/someone. 

§      Answering:  You can teach these while reading books and finding things on the pages.  You can also play a hiding game and hide objects around the room and find them when answering the question “Where is the ____?”

§      Asking:  Have child imitate your question and you provide the answer.

¨        “Who” Questions  These questions require an answer including a person.

§      Answering:  These can be targeted by looking at a family photo album and asking “Who is this?”

§      Asking:  Have child imitate your question and you provide the answer.

 Be sure to only work on one question type at a time.  Make sure that your child can answer the certain question types accurately (receptive skill) before working on having the child ask the question (expressive skill).

Sincerely,

Meredith B. Sorokwasz M.A., CCC-SLP
Speech Language Pathologist

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